do i sit down a for a quiet, undisturbed cup of tea with a book?
do i get two hours of work knocked off without ANY interruption?
do i get all the house errands done without lugging sanah all over?
do i clear the mess at home, without help from sanah(making the mess worse?
do i call a couple of friends and have a conversation without having to make them talk to sanah?
do i visit any one friend and just have an undisturbed conversation over tea?
guess what i did today - i went over the above list so many times that it was time to go and get sanah!